Assalamualaikum Guys! 😊💕❤️
QOTD: What lies that you told yourself but you don't realize it is lies later on?
I read What I know for sure by Oprah Winfrey and she quotes Don Miguel - The Four Agreements
“Ninety-five percent of the beliefs we have stored in our minds are nothing but lies, and we suffer because we believe all these lies.”
Reading the quotes remind me that I used to believe my background come from Broken homes family as weakness/imperfections.
If you knew/follow me long enough, you probably knew my parents divorced.
So, Whenever I got rejected in taaruf (Arranged marriage) process, I often wonder "Do they reject me because I am from Broken Home family and worry that if marry me, the marriage will end up in divorce?"
While I have accepted my parents divorce and became peace with it after long process denial, somehow I still felt ashamed and worried about others people's opinions.
Until I met my husband.
My husband read my personal blog
,where it is basically my online diary, so he knew my parents are divorced.
I asked him "Why you want to be with me if you knew my parents divorced/I came from broken home family?"
He said "You can't have perfect partner/You can't have it all. So after thinking hard, I decided 5 important qualities that my partner must have, and you have those qualities, the rest doesn't matter"
When my husband said that it like there is light in my head, like "So all these time, I worry over nothing. My broken home family background doesn't matter at all. Why I considered them as weakness? All these time I was suffering because I have false believe/lies I told my self. Is not it funny?"😂🤣🤣
Now, I am really thankful that Allah has opened my eyes and show me that I had false beliefs that made me suffer and relieve me from the suffering.
So, I hope you guys are relieved from any suffering that you are going through. Hope Allah give you strength to go through all of this. Wish you all the best. Sending you guys love hug ❤️💕💕💕
Hope you have a great day! 😘
